Sunday, October 20, 2013

A day after a class on bullying, a suicide

            http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/18/us/illinois-suicide-sophomore/index.html?hpt=us_c1
                Lewis said he learned Thursday that Carterville High School in Crainville, Illinois, had shown the sophomore class a video on Wednesday about bullying. "And, at the end of the video, that the kid that was being bullied went home and committed suicide," he said. The fact that Lewis did the same exact thing as the kid in the video shows that the video wasn’t good in showing the proper way to handle bullying. It should’ve shown the kid going to a counselor to get help or someone stepping up to help this kid get a hold of the situation. It showed have shown the kids suicide is not the answer, maybe they could of stressed this at the end of the video how what the kid did on the video is not the answer and there is better ways to cope with bullying and stand up to it the right way. I do remember seeing a video similar to this in middle school where the kid tried to commit suicide but somebody stopped him.
                "This bullying has to stop," the father said in his video. "People have to stop treating other people the way they do, because some people just don't have the strength to overcome the humiliation, the continuation of being picked on constantly, every day, to the point that they have no outs." This is very true, we need to stop being mean to others especially when you have no idea what that person goes through every day. Just because you go to school with someone doesn’t mean you know them enough to be rude to them and think they deserve it or that they can handle another person bringing them. Regardless if you know them or not you should never feel people deserve to be treated badly and told hurtful things about themselves. There are kids out there that get bullied at their own household, by their own siblings and maybe even parents. They may have a terrible home life or broken up family and by hurting them at school on top of the hurt they feel every day because their family life isn’t the best can only lead them more to the conclusion that the only solutions is to die, but it isn’t.

                But, she added, "We need to, as a society, not just the press, need to handle suicides in a way that's knowledgeable, that provides hope and real resources for people who are struggling, and not just a story that presents suicide as the one and only outcome." We need to come together in all aspects and defeat bullying for once and for all, if that is even possible. Until then we need to look out for people we think are going through a rough patch and make sure they know we are always there to talk to them and that suicide is never the answer. 

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